Visiting Thailand you cannot miss people - from
Thai origin but also from all different countries, cultures and religions - walking
around with thin white cotton ropes around there wrists. Some call them
bracelets. Actually it are ropes, blessed by a Buddhist monk, you get after or
during a ceremony or blessing. The call them “Sai Sin”. Everybody, independent
religion, can and is allowed to wear the Sai Sin. Why? Because Buddhism is no
religion (there is no God involved). It’s a way of living life in which the
Buddha is the honoured and high respected teacher.
A lot of guests, I worked with already, are
very impressed by the use of ‘blessed rope’ in all kind of Buddhist ceremonies.
In short I will try to give a little explanation of the use. My information I
have out of working with the Buddhist University (Wat Suan Dok) in Chiang Mai,
and my own impressions in the North part of Thailand, Chiang Mai countryside.
So I will not suggest everywhere in Buddhism it has the same meaning and
understanding.
The spiritual meaning of Sai Sin is one of
connection, protection, good, health, bliss, prosperity, show merit and finally
also of being aware of the art of letting go.
Most of the used sacred thread has the colour
white. This colour represents purity. Especially here where I live, the North
of Thailand, for the personal bracelets monks also use different colours such
as orange, yellow or even red. In combination with a small piece of gold
coloured metal it is also connected with the sun and with action.
People, men, women and children, early in the
morning visit the temple to visit a monk and do so called ‘Tak Bat’ (early food
offering) or offer a closed envelop with money. On the envelop they write down
their name and their personal wishes, gratefulness and thankfulness for the
coming year. During a prayer or chant of the monk the person who has its
birthday gently pours water into a small jar. The meaning is that you let go of
so called bad karma (action) during the praying.
After the prayer they get their blessing of the
monk with holy water. As a remembering they get the Sai Sin. The monk does not
touch a lady or girl when he ties the sacred rope. Some people also honour especially
their ‘day of birth’ Buddha, After three days (three connected with the so
called Triple Gem (Buddha, Dhama (teaching of the Buddha) and Sangha (group of
followers)) they untie the rope (or cut it) and sometimes put it for a couple
of other days under their pillow. Some people keep the bracelet because it
shows that everything changes, gets older and finally drops / returns to nature
again. An expression of letting go without any effort.
(Picture attached is showing a just five year
old girl with her mother - their Sai Sins tied around their wrists - after the
young girl got her birthday blessing.)
Car or scooter blessing (Safety and protection):
When Thai got their new car or motorbike they,
most of the time their first trip with their means of transportation, also go
to the temple. Much more is done by the monk. Not only a blessing with water
but also Buddhist signs with sacred chalk are made and again sacred ropes are
tied around the steer wheel of the car of bike. Especially asking for
protection and safety. This ropes will stay till they, once the time is there,
fall off.
Yearly Buddhist celebrations:
During several Buddhist national celebrations,
starting at and connected with the Buddha’s hand of the main Buddha statue in
the village temple, the sacred cotton rope is connected with grid-lines above
the sacred centre place in the temple. Lots of times you also can see the white
cotton lines through all the streets in the village. The villagers connect
their ‘house Buddha’ with rope to this long lines so all the Buddha’s in the
village are connected with the main village Buddha in the temple.
When people come to pray, chant or meditate in
the temple they connect with a peace of rope to the grid-network above their
head. Sometimes they connect with their hands (in wai position) or fingers,
sometimes they loop it around their head. This last connection is even stronger
because the circle is involved remembering on the ongoing flow of passing away
and rebirth. To reach a state of again being for the soul to grow.
During the chanting ceremonies the monks,
sitting close to the Buddha statue, first hold the sacred lines. After that
everybody is connected what is the main idea of this connection. To be one altogether.
During weddings:
A Buddhist wedding really is a very special ceremony.
The Sai Sin play a crucial role because bride and groom are connected by the
sacred ropes looped around their head. Family members tie the bracelets around
the wrists of the new married couple for luck, long life, happiness etc..
Cremation ceremony:
At the place where I live during the cremation not only has the meaning of protection and good luck during the journey of the soul to a next life. It also has a meaning of letting go.
At the place where I live during the cremation not only has the meaning of protection and good luck during the journey of the soul to a next life. It also has a meaning of letting go.
In Western tradition a lot of times family members
and friends are not able to let go of the connection. So in Buddhist tradition
actually they do not grant the soul of the passed away person to be ‘free’ for
the next step to again being. Monks and family members literally drop the rope connected
with the deceased after praying and chanting and leave the open air cremation
area just after the coffin and body set on fire.
Frans Captijn
Host / Catalyst / Talenteer at Captijn Insight
Captijn Insight: “Catalyst in your process to new sustainable flow. Whether you are an individual, couple, team or an organization.”
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Frans Captijn
Host / Catalyst / Talenteer at Captijn Insight
Captijn Insight: “Catalyst in your process to new sustainable flow. Whether you are an individual, couple, team or an organization.”
captijninsight@gmail.com
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